****** ONLY SOME OF THESE ME & DADDY USE *****
HOH = HEAD OF HOUSEHOLD
DD = Domestic Discipline
D/S = DOMINATION/SUBISSION
B&D = BONDAGE & DISCIPLINE
DOM = DOMINANT
F/T = FULL TIME
IRL= IN REAL LIFE
R/T = PART TIME
RL = REAL LIFE
OTK = OVER THE KNEE
SM = SADIMS/MASOCHISM
SUB = SUBMISSIVE
LIL = LITTLE ADULT
DADDY = DADDY DOM
BART = MISBEHAVING LIL
TTWD = THE THING WE DO
SUB = SUBMISSIVE
CP =Corporal Punishment
SO =significant Other
BABY GIRL = ADULT LITTLE
Collared = SUBMISSIVE OR SLAVE WHO IS OWNED
Maintenance = WEEKLY SPANKING TO COVER THE LITTLE THINGS THAT MIGHT HAVE BEEN MISSED
Dom = A person who exercises control
Hard limits = What someone absolutely will not do non-negotiable
Soft Limits =Something that someone is hesitant to do or nervous to try.
submissive = or “sub” for short. Person that gives up control either all the time or for a specified period
Taken in hand = 24/7 Male dominance in monogamous marriage, with or without BDSM aspects.
Topping from the bottom: = A bottom who purports to be a submissive but who nonetheless wants to direct the top.
Total power exchange: a relationship where the dominant or owner has complete authority and influence over the submissive’s life, making the majority of decisions.
Vanilla= Someone who is not into BDSM. Alternatively, sexual behaviour which does not encompass BDSM activity. The term is sometimes used in a derogatory sense.
*** feel free to add anything i missed *****