Daddy and I met a while back online (woohoo!), and have been dating for a little over 6 month. We are in a loving, committed relationship, and into spanking.. Some of our spankings are very real and serious, because we do participate in DD, but other times are just us having fun with it.
We don’t take spanking too seriously, and believe every couple should write their own rules for it. As far as the serious or DD side of it, I don’t have a long list of rules to follow, nor does he control my every move. We have chosen to use DD, and spanking specifically, as a way to deal with issues that are detrimental to each other or to our relationship. It is kind of like our alternative to arguing when the issue is really not worth arguing about. We are happy to have spanking in our lives when we see or hear about other, non-spanko couples arguing about silly things.
so in saying all that. I love him and he loves me and we would not have any other lifestyle.
he is my soul-mate and i am his 🙂