Mondays or Tuesdays of some weeks are really hard cause it when daddy leave leave to go back on the truck for a long week away from home. It always make me sad to see him go and i miss him each an every day that he is gone.it worries me when daddy is not home with his baby girl. but Im always happy to see daddy when he comes home safe. when he is home it mean i have some one to take baths with me and to cuddle with at night. and just do fun stuff with and some weekends i get spanked when he comes home if i was not a good girl while he was gone. most of the it my Big mouth or me not listen to him or acting like a brat! that get me the spanking. but i know daddy loves me and miss me while he is gone to. we always make the best of the weekends when he is home no matter how long it is. when daddy is gone on the road, We talk everyday and every min we can and some time Skype to if we can get it to work right most night it wont. which makes me sad cause i love to see daddy while he is always it makes my day. i love you daddy you got my hear and soul and i cant wait to get marred to you. i miss you every day your not home.
life is good when daddy is home 🙂
this is what it look like when daddy leave……
Me when Daddy comes home………. 🙂
****** ONLY SOME OF THESE ME & DADDY USE *****
HOH = HEAD OF HOUSEHOLD
DD = Domestic Discipline
D/S = DOMINATION/SUBISSION
B&D = BONDAGE & DISCIPLINE
DOM = DOMINANT
F/T = FULL TIME
IRL= IN REAL LIFE
R/T = PART TIME
RL = REAL LIFE
OTK = OVER THE KNEE
SM = SADIMS/MASOCHISM
SUB = SUBMISSIVE
LIL = LITTLE ADULT
DADDY = DADDY DOM
BART = MISBEHAVING LIL
TTWD = THE THING WE DO
SUB = SUBMISSIVE
CP =Corporal Punishment
SO =significant Other
BABY GIRL = ADULT LITTLE
Collared = SUBMISSIVE OR SLAVE WHO IS OWNED
Maintenance = WEEKLY SPANKING TO COVER THE LITTLE THINGS THAT MIGHT HAVE BEEN MISSED
Dom = A person who exercises control
Hard limits = What someone absolutely will not do non-negotiable
Soft Limits =Something that someone is hesitant to do or nervous to try.
submissive = or “sub” for short. Person that gives up control either all the time or for a specified period
Taken in hand = 24/7 Male dominance in monogamous marriage, with or without BDSM aspects.
Topping from the bottom: = A bottom who purports to be a submissive but who nonetheless wants to direct the top.
Total power exchange: a relationship where the dominant or owner has complete authority and influence over the submissive’s life, making the majority of decisions.
Vanilla= Someone who is not into BDSM. Alternatively, sexual behaviour which does not encompass BDSM activity. The term is sometimes used in a derogatory sense.
*** feel free to add anything i missed *****
I FOUND THIS SOME WHERE ONLINE NOT SURE WHERE. BUT THOUGHT IT COULD MAYBE HE HELPFUL.
HAPPY SPANKING ALL !!!!!
(SPANK O METER )
DADDY I LOVE YOU FOR ALL THE THING YOU HAVE DONE FOR ME. I APPRECIATE YOU MORE THEN WORLD COULD SAY. I LOVE YOU LIKE I HAVE LOVED NO MAN BEFORE AND I WILL CONTINUE TO AS LONG AS YOU WILL HAVE ME. I HOPE ONE DAY TO BE CALLED YOUR WIFE.
THANK YOU FOR ACCEPTING &UNDERSTAND MY BABY-GIRL SIDE & FOR TAKE ME AS I AM. THANK YOU DADDY FOR GIVING ME THE DISCIPLINE AND CARE I NEED TO BE A GOOD BABY GIRL. THANK YOU DADDY FOR GIVING ME THE PROTECT, GUIDANCE, NURTURING. LOVE, THAT I NEED. THANK YOUR FOR TAKE CARE OF ME. THANK YOU DADDY FOR ACCEPTING THIS LIFESTYLE AS MY DADDY AND THE HEAD OF HOUSE HOLD. THANK YOU DADDY FOR LETTING ME BE YOUR LITTLE PRINCESSES AND BABY-GIRL.
DADDY HAS RULES SET IN PLACE FOR BABY-GIRL TO FOLLOW TO MAKE SURE SHE STAY SAFE AND HAPPY. I MUST FOLLOW THEM TO THE BEST OF MY ABILITY.
1. Daddy has final say on any and all decisions
2. Always let the HoH know where you are and who you are with. Have permission before leaving the house.
3. Answer your phone whenever the HoH contacts you
4. Ask before making plans (full details of everything)
5. Assure HoH’s house and yours are always clean no stashing items in closets or hiding from view
6. make sure the kids safety is to be met at all time which means no speeding left unattended etc
7. Be honest
8. Be obedient
9. Internet usage is limited to 4hrs at a time must take two hour break after no fb or any other apps on phone
10. Be respectful
11. Bed time at a certain time (between 10 and 11:30 seem popular)/get enough rest/sleep eight hours a day
12. All rules will be strictly enforced breaking certain rules continuiously will lead to harsher punishments
13 .All punishments will be enforced as soon as hoh is able to arrange the time to do so
14. Discuss but don’t argue
15. Do as you’re told and no questioning (unless you have reason to think it will harm you and then be respectful) (no whining, about rules/punishment/, no arguing). You are allowed to state my opinion but in a calm, mature manner
16. Do everything with a smile and pleasant attitude.
17. Do not abuse substances (don’t drink/ drink too much/ without HoH knowing who and where/ without permission/ without HoH, no smoking,)
18. Amount of punishment for breaking any rules will be determined by hoh
19. Do not raise your voice to daddy
20. Do not roll eyes, stick tongue out, or say ‘whatever’go fuck yourself in response to anything
21. Do not say no. Especially to sex.
22. Daddy will take care of his babygirls needs to the best of his ability
23. Do not withhold important information from your daddy
24. All sexual needs of daddy will be taken care of by babygirl to the best of her abilitys
25. Follow all of the rules
26. It is babygirls responsiblity to make sure the household is taken care of food,tolietrys,laundry etc
27. Good behavior in public – do not say or do anything away from each other that is not acceptable if you are together
28. If babygirl has any question on any rule or doesnt understand it ask daddy will cut down on punishment for not knowing
29. Hold daddy in the highest regard.
30. Daddy has the right to revise or update these rules as he sees fit
31. If you have a problem, share it with daddy and then let it go. Trust your daddy to guide you.
32. Keep a positive attitude.
33. major decisions will be made together but daddy has the final say on all decisions
34. Listen and pay attention
35. Make HoH and childrens happiness your first priority
36. Any items needed for the household babygirl needs to tell daddy so he knows what moneys are spent
37. Daddy has the right to punish the children as he sees fit in tell baby girl how to do it as in (time out, no t.v, take toys always, no going to the park,)
38. Daddy has the right to take away items from babygirl such as internet,tv etc as he sees fit as punishment
39. No spending any money without hoh approval
40. No throwing things
41. No yelling
42. No locking hoh out of house, bedroom,bathroom etc
43. If daddy tells you to wear lingerie to please him u do so without hesitation
44. Obey direct commands
45. Obey verbal and non verbal commands without hesitation.
46. asks before leaving the house
47. Our communications online or in person with others are transparent meaning that we communicate things so there are no surprises – it doesn’t mean HoH reads all you emails. No hiding emails, Facebook, etc
48. if daddy feels the need to look at emails texts ims etc he may babygirl may do the same
49. you will do as your told at all times
50. Report failures to adhere to rules in a timely manner
51. Report when sick
52. Say yes daddy, no daddy and please sir at specified times/when alone, in a respectful tone, and when responding to orders
53. no going to ex boyfriends houses fuck buddies etc if u wish to daddy will accompany
54. Show respect
55. Never hang up while on the phone with hoh
56. Submit to corporal punishment when you misbehave
57. Take all medication on time which means taking your iron and multi vitamin
58. no taking any presciption other than multi vitamin or iron unless approved through hoh
59. Take care of personal daily needs shaving maintenence on private areas etc
60. Tell the full truth no little white lies do something, do it immediately without whining or complaining.
61. Babygirl will discipline children as daddy does when hes not home
62. Do not attempt to make any decisions without hoh approval
63. babygirl will let daddy know of any concerns she might have about anything that might make her sad or stressed
64. No nude or revealing pics are to be sent to anyone but hoh
65. No sexting to anyone other than hoh
66. if your gonna be late getting home for any reason you must let hoh know why and has to be approved
67. daddy will handle all maintenance around the house,cars etc
68. bob will not be used any at all while daddy is home to take care of babygirl sexually
69. if babygirl is horny in any way she needs to let her daddy know asap so he can take care of her needs
70. babygirl will never say she forgot who her daddy is
71. No overnight guest without hoh approval
2.Spanking with the hand
3.spanking with the brush
4.spanking with the paddle
5.spanking with the belt
7.taking away internet phone tv etc.
10.forcefully taking the cookie and not allowing babygirl to watch/or made to suck on daddys cock to show shes sorry
11.hot sauce or soap
12.made to sleep naked in bed at bedtime
13.making babygirl pleasure herself in front of daddy with her blindfolded so she cant see
14.intense sessions that may involve any of the above during the session
15.silence babygirl will not be allowed to talk for a certain amount of time
16. these punishments are to be used as daddy sees fit depending on the number of time certain rules are broken
***They are subject to change as daddy see fit**
Daddy and I met a while back online (woohoo!), and have been dating for a little over 6 month. We are in a loving, committed relationship, and into spanking.. Some of our spankings are very real and serious, because we do participate in DD, but other times are just us having fun with it.
We don’t take spanking too seriously, and believe every couple should write their own rules for it. As far as the serious or DD side of it, I don’t have a long list of rules to follow, nor does he control my every move. We have chosen to use DD, and spanking specifically, as a way to deal with issues that are detrimental to each other or to our relationship. It is kind of like our alternative to arguing when the issue is really not worth arguing about. We are happy to have spanking in our lives when we see or hear about other, non-spanko couples arguing about silly things.
so in saying all that. I love him and he loves me and we would not have any other lifestyle.
he is my soul-mate and i am his 🙂
DADDY SAYING TO BABY GIRL (lil)
DADDY SAYING TO ME
- ‘ll kiss it and make it better
- why are you being punished little girl?”
- “babygirl needs her daddy, doesnt she?”,
- “but daddy” is not a valid argument,
- “do as your told or you’ll be very sorry.
- don’t be scared..i’ve done this before.”,
- “don’t push me too far, young lady”,
- “good girl”
- “i didn’t ask if you were sorry” “
- now you’re mine!
- “i will give you something to cry about”,
- “i’ll let you know when you’re done!”
- I’m proud of you”
- it’s ok… you’re with me now.”,
- “shut up and bend over”,
- trust me, you will be crying your eyes out long before this spanking is over.
- try again without the attitude”,
- “watch your language, little girl”,
- “what did i say…”
- you will be one sorry little girl!”,
- “you’re mine, understood?”
- oh really?”
- because daddy knows best
- because daddy said so
- yes what !
- do i need to spank your bottom, little girl?,
- i didn’t ask if you felt like it.,
- oh really? well this paddle says otherwise.
- i am proving you’re not too cute to punish,
- come to me”, this is not a suggestion, do it now!,
- this will only hurt more if you struggle,
- tells me i’ll do as i’m told),
- you belong to daddy, babygirl. understood?,
- you’re getting a spanking,
- i love you baby girl
BABY GIRL SAYING TO DADDY
- but that’s not faaaaiiiirrr!!”
- but daddy PLZZ
- but i’m not a baby!”
- i didn’t do that! oh.. that? that i did do.”,
- “i may not win..but i won’t back down..
- “i’m sorry i’ll be good i promise”,
- “please daddy, can i? please?”,
- daddy will you kiss it and make it better.
- “oh really?”
- but i have been a good girl
- I’M A BRAT SO
- i dont want to
- you cant make me
- is that all you got
- yes daddy
- no daddy
- “i am all yours daddy”
- yeah i said it!!! now what?!,
- i love you daddy
- i do whatever i want
- i run thing you dont
* most of my saying getting me in a lot of trouble**